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Feb 02

The Orders of Helping: A Workshop for Therapists, Healers, Coaches, and Educators

Helping others as art.



The Orders of Helping: Workshop for Therapists, Healers, Coaches, and Educators 🌿

Helping others as an art.


We invite you to join us on Sunday, February 2, 2025, for The Orders of Helping, a one-day workshop designed to deepen your understanding of supporting others in a way that fosters healing, strength, and true independence. Held at the serene Mettabee Farm & Arts Center, this workshop will take place from 10:00 am to 5:00 pm and promises to transform your approach to helping.


The Six Orders of Helping


The Orders of Helping, as outlined by Bert Hellinger, provide essential principles for helping with clarity and integrity, ensuring that your efforts support true growth and balance. Here's what you'll explore:

1. The First Order of Helping

Helpers only give what they have and can only expect and take what they need.

2. The Second Order of Helping

Helpers respect the client's circumstances, and their interventions only go as far as those circumstances permit.

3. The Third Order of Helping

Helpers meet an adult who seeks help as an adult.

4. The Fourth Order of Helping

The helper's empathy is focused on the whole system rather than exclusively on the client.

5. The Fifth Order of Helping

Helpers love each human being, no matter how different this person may be from the helper.

6. The Sixth Order of Helping

Helpers agree to the client's situation exactly as it is or was without any regret.


What You'll Explore


Helping is more than a skill; it's a delicate balance. This workshop will illuminate the Orders of Helping, enabling you to help with clarity, compassion, and respect.


You'll also learn how the unconscious memory of your family soul may intertwine with the family dynamics of those you support. These hidden entanglements can profoundly affect your interactions and outcomes. By recognizing and addressing these patterns, you'll be able to help with greater awareness and lasting impact.


Workshop Schedule

Morning: Foundations and Practice

• Lecture: Discover the principles of The Orders of Helping and how to apply them in your practice.

• Experiential Exercises: Work in small groups to practice applying these principles in real-life scenarios.

Afternoon: Insight and Transformation

• Constellation Sessions: Participate in or observe transformative constellations centered on helping.

• Uncovering Systemic Dynamics: Explore how unconscious family soul entanglements shape your role as a helper and learn practical ways to bring clarity and healing to these dynamics.

Workshop Details

• Date: Sunday, February 2, 2025

• Time: 10:00 am - 5:00 pm

• Location: Mettabee Farm & Arts Center

• Cost: $120 (includes workshop materials)


This is more than a workshop—it's a day of reflection, connection, and skill-building in a supportive, nurturing space.

Why Attend?

• Gain deeper insight into the Orders of Helping, enabling you to support others with greater awareness.

• Understand how systemic entanglements influence your relationships with clients, students, or patients.

• Take home practical tools to help you navigate your role as a therapist, healer, coach, or educator with clarity and confidence.


Have questions? We're here to help! Feel free to reach out.

Let's deepen the art of helping—together.

Warm regards,

Lucian Schloss

Family Constellation Facilitator


Mettabee Farm and Arts
551 Harlemville Rd, Hillsdale, NY 12529
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Feb 02, 2025 10:00am - Feb 02, 2025 05:00pm

$120.00