Saturday, October 26, 2024
Annual Psychoanalytic Couple Psychotherapy Lecture of 2024
Join PCPG for our Annual Psychoanalytic Couple Psychotherapy Lecture in-person at the Brower Center in Berkeley, CA, (available online as well), as we host James Poulton, Ph.D., and discussant Ortal Kirson-Trilling Psy.D.
In the history of psychoanalytic theory of couple relationships, numerous models have been advanced to describe the essential dynamics of healthy couples. In this paper, the core characteristics of a particular kind of healthy couple - which the author calls a “healing couple” - are explored. With emphasis on the healing couple’s “shared creativity,” grounded in intersubjective states in which the boundaries between self and other have become fluid, the author emphasizes the importance of the healing couple’s capacity to intuit previously unformed and unacknowledged elements of their relationship, and to utilize their discoveries in developing more meaningful, purposeful, and real foundations for their creative interactions. In the paper, the author uses extensive case material to illustrate not only the interactions that are characteristic of the healing couple, but also the transformations a couple must go through to reach such a stage, as well as the therapeutic techniques that can help them along the way. |